Friday, August 3

Birth Announcement

Birth Announcement
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Friday, June 29

Big gap in Posting - good reason

Hi all!

Ian and I got married on 17 December 2006 and welcomed Kiera Kathleen and Ainsley Elizabeth to the Parkin clan on 25 May 2007. Kiera weighed 4lb 10oz and Ainsley was 5lb 14oz. The girls were born at 33 weeks 6 days. Mum had been on sick leave since 22 weeks with some pretty typical multiple birth complications.

After the girls arrival by emergency c-section in Windsor (long story), they stayed in the NICU there for a week until we were all shipped home to London's St. Joseph's hospital. After a day in progressive care, the girls and Mum stayed in the Care by Parent section of the NICU until 18:19hrs on the June 19th when we were finally cleared to come home.

These days we're just living feeding to feeding, enjoying each other, being home and being a family.

I'll start posting for the blog again asap but wanted anyone who checks our posts to know why we've been absent for so long.

Monday, October 23

Fisher Research yields new information:

Dennis McLusky

Death by Misadventure 1862

Who is Dennis McLusky you ask? My Mum was born Elizabeth Simpson Fisher; her Dad was George Fisher; his Dad was James Fisher and his Mum was Mary Ann McLusky. Mary Ann's Dad was Dennis McLusky and this story is primarily about him.

Dennis, my great-great-great grandfather, was born in Ireland around 1813 (estimated from his death reg'n and Scottish census records. I haven't located his birth reg'n yet.)

Dennis was married to Catherine Docherty, born 1821'ish also in Ireland. I expect they married in Ireland (again no record yet). Scottish census records indicate there were five McLusky children - two disappearing over time. The surviving three, all born in Stewarton, Ayrshire, Scotland, are Mary Ann (1847), John (1855) and James (23 March 1856).


Side Note - it's all in a name - Because Catherine, Dennis and Mary Ann were illiterate (used their 'mark' on documents instead of a signature) their surname spelling frequently changes but remains phonetically true - McLusky, McLuskie, McClusky, MacCluskie, etc. This can make researching quite frustrating and time intensive. Preliminary Irish research indicates McLusky is a family name common in the Londonderry area.

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Another note: Researching is essentially is reaching backwards from what you know hoping to find what logically should be there. As Sherlock Holmes famously said "when you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth." Genealogically speaking, each person must to be verified three times before they're considered proven.

This means searching through census; birth, death and marriage registrations; graveyards; cemetery, land registry, probate, civil & criminal court, military, guild records and more; obituaries, newspaper archives, regional historical accounts & books, etc. Add wars, famines, wide spread disease, new world opportunities, and the thronging masses - research road blocks are inevitable. So, when a mystery gives itself up, it's very exciting.

The mystery of the McLuskys, for us, began in June '04 in the Edinburgh records office when we discovered Mary Ann as James Fisher's wife.

Meticulously plodding backwards, it seemed as if the McLusky family suddenly came apart but I didn't know why. In a similar Essey (Dad's family) situation, I eventually discovered tuberculosis caused a family to scatter and one entire branch to die in short order. I looked for that sort of cause.

Between the 1841 and 1851 Scottish census', Dennis with wife, Catherine, and son, Thomas (born Ireland c. 1836) left Ireland for Scotland.

Beginning in 1845 and lasting for six years, the potato famine killed over a million men, women and children in Ireland and caused another million to flee the country. http://www.historyplace.com/worldhistory/famine/introduction.htm

We know that his parents, Thomas, a small farmer, and his wife Martha (nee Donachy) McLusky died before 1862.

Ireland in the mid-1800s was an agricultural nation, populated by eight million persons who were among the poorest people in the Western World. Only about a quarter of the population could read and write. Life expectancy was short, just 40 years for men. The Irish married quite young, girls at 16, boys at 17 or 18, and tended to have large families, although infant mortality was also quite high.

A British survey in 1835 found half of the rural families in Ireland living in single-room, windowless mud cabins that didn't have chimneys. The people lived in small communal clusters, known as clachans, spread out among the beautiful countryside. Up to a dozen persons lived inside a cabin, sleeping in straw on the bare ground, sharing the place with the family's pig and chickens.

I assume Dennis and Catherine lived similarly before leaving Ireland for Scotland - probably fleeing the potato famine. A similar potato fungus was blamed for a lesser but still devasting Scottish Highland blight (1846-1857). Irish refugees, drawn by food ration support in Scotland that was non-existent in Ireland, were driven into Scotland's interior by threat of deportation.

1851 Scotland census - Dennis - working as a Hawker and Lodginghouse keeper - living in Stewarton with Catherine, Thomas, Mary Ann and baby Margaret. His lodgers are nearly all Irish.

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1861 Scotland Census - Dennis, a watch and clock maker - still living in Stewarton with Catherine, Mary Ann, John, James and a "Doherty" boarder.

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In subsequent census searches for 1871, 1881, etc., Dennis vanished. In 1871, we found Catherine as head of the family:

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Where did Dennis go? Possibilities - off visiting when the census was taken, working elsewhere but still part of the family, in military service, prison, hospital or possibly dead.

Mary Ann's and James Fisher's marriage reg'n, 18 Oct. 1872, Stewarton, lists both her parents as deceased.

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So we started digging for death reg'ns for both Catherine and Dennis. We found Catherine first, working forward from the 1871 census. Catherine, daughter of John (weaver) and Maggie (maiden name unknown) Docherty, both deceased, died 26 January 1872 at 20 Vennel Street, Stewarton - the widow of Dennis McLusky, watch and clock maker, reported by daughter Mary Ann McLusky who witnessed her death. The cause of death is unfortunately nearly illegible.

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So now we knew Dennis was dead - and probably died before the 1871 census. Searching from 1871 backwards, we found his death reg'n in 1862.

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Initially, I was just excited to finally know the answer to why he vanished. Then I looked closely at the cause of death - looking for any possible patterns. "Gun shot wound". It is hard to read but I kept seeing gun shot wound. I checked with Ian - he agreed - gun shot wound. In 25 years of research, that's a first for me. Dennis McLusky died 12 hours after being wounded, on January 2nd, 1862 at Townend Stewarton.

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Ian started searching for library newspaper collections in Ayrshire. He made some phone calls to the U.K. and found the most wonderful Mr. Ian MacDonald who works with the local Museum Services. Mr. MacDonald and Ian exchanged a number of emails detailing where Mr. MacDonald might and had searched for any mention of Dennis McLusky's untimely death.

Mr. MacDonald spent considerable time going through several regional newspaper collections by hand in his spare time. This morning he sent us this:

"In the Stewarton News of January 11th there was the following news item; January 11th 1862

'FATAL ACCIDENT BY THE INCAUTIOUS USE OF FIREARMS

Between 1p.m. and 2p.m. of the New Year's Day, 1862, a number of drunken persons were competing for a prize at Townend, Stewarton, by shooting with powder and shot. While John Hawthorn, shoemaker, was discharging a gun, it burst and part of it struck Dennis McClusky, a watch and clock maker here, wounding him in the side, which resulted in his death at 2.31p.m. of the 2nd inst.

It is thought the gun was unsafe to use, and having been heavily loaded caused the explosion. Dr Gilmour was in immediate attendance on McClusky and from the first saw there was no hope for the unfortunate man, who became weaker and weaker until death put an end to his sufferings. He has left a wife and three children to mourn his untimely end.'

Trust this answers all your questions, except that he is listed as a clock and watchmaker. There were quite a few in the town at that time, although most of the workings were bought in from outside and they made the cases locally. This might explain why there is no gravestone as they would probably not be well paid.
Regards,
Ian H Mac "

Monday, October 16

Potential Research Holiday

We're hoping in the next year or so to take a research holiday in England and Scotland.

We're hoping before we leave to have mapped out specific significant places and addresses to visit and photograph including cemeteries, former homes of family, churches where marriages occurred, business locations,etc. Currently, we use online mapping and satellite picture resources to locate family addresses we get off census returns, birth registrations, etc.

Since a lot of our research is overlapping in London, England, we'll hopefully get time to talk with Queenie's boys and their families in person. Ian's Elliott/Parkin and my Richardson/Hill research areas of London are nearly spitting distance apart.

If any of you "I've always wondered..." questions about our families, email us. Your input can focus our nearly endless research possibilities. And for the curious, we'll be adding links here shortly for our favourite online research sites.

Ian's quest for Michael
(Better told by Ian perhaps but I'm the one typing)

In every family there are mysteries and as a family history researcher, those mysteries can seem like searching for the holy grail. In my family, my first big mystery and eventually success was my Great Grandfather's life and family before he was a Barnardo orphan.

While on holiday in Australia nearly a year ago, Ian got an amazing amount of research support and help from his family and inevitably, unfinished stories or questions popped up. These "I've always wondered..." moments are like loose threads that inspire and challenge family historians to chase these fragments or questions and try to weave the research results once again into the fabric of our family's past.

In Ian's case, the most common family comment or question was what happened to Michael. (Previous to Ian's search this was his family's only known picture of Michael.)

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Some quick background: Once upon a time, Ian's grandfather, Tom Parkin, was married to Queenie Lorraine Elliott and they had three children, Jean (1937), Terry (1940 - Ian's Dad) and a baby named Michael (1946). Tom was a gunner in WWII and at some point fairly soon after he returned from war (sketchy here) his marriage to Queenie unravelled. When Queenie left she took Michael (only a few months old) with her, leaving her other two young children behind. She left Tom (and the kids) for a man named John Edward Tilbury. Tom eventually remarried and Eadie raised Jean and Terry as her own. This whole Parkin branch eventually immigrated to and resides in Australia.

Photo: Tom & Eadie Parkin
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As Ian asked siblings, his Mum and extended family what they knew of Parkin family history, Michael's name came up every time. Did he survive to adulthood, is he alive, what's he like, who is his biological father, etc. Apparently, everyone knew the story of the missing infant - except Ian. Ian found this very frustrating - 'how can I be the only one who doesn't know about him?' he said over and over. Ironically, Ian's middle name is Michael - he was named for the uncle he didn't know existed and this made him even more determined (if that's possible with Ian) to find him.

When Ian started researching the Parkin clan (mostly online) he found lots of birth, death and marriage registrations and census records - each little nugget filling in a bit more of the puzzle that is his heritage. He was very excited to locate Michael's birth registration. Photobucket - Video and Image Hosting

He also found Queenie's death registration which eventually led him (it's a long story) to telephoning the U.K. Using some good logic and an online phone book for the area he felt the family might still be in, Ian found his half uncle, David Tilbury and his wife, Terry. And Terry told Ian about Michael.

Michael lives around the corner from David and Terry. He's 60 years old, married and has two children. Ian laughed at David's description of Michael's personality. He says he sounds just like his Granddad and his Dad. David and Terry have talked with Ian several times by phone, exchanged email addresses, photos and family stories. There's still more to learn but most of the mystery is solved.

Michael's Dad is Tom Parkin. Parkin lore says Queenie left Tom for John Tilbury, taking Michael with her. The Tilburys say "Michael came with Queenie". Michael's birth registration names Tom Parkin as his father, he has a Parkin-like personality which David says is very unlike his Tilbury siblings and we see a resemblance in young photos of Tom & Michael (facial features and height). Without DNA testing, based on the above, we believe the birth registration as written.

Photo: Thomas Parkin holding baby Ian

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Photo: Tom & Eadie with one of their grandchildren

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Michael, who was an infant when his parents' marriage ended, to this day calls himself Michael Parkin. He never took the Tilbury name.

Queenie, with John Tilbury, subsequently had 4 more sons: Robert (1949), David & Peter (1950 twins) and Christopher (1953).

John Tilbury, who was a painter and house decorator, died in 1990 and Queenie died in 1996. David says the boys were raised in hard circumstances and learned early to take care of themselves. His wife Terry agrees with us that Michael clearly resembles Tom Parkin.

Photo - (older) John & Queenie Tilbury

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Photo - Queenie and Michael (tall with arm around his Mum) with the boys.

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Photo: Michael playing horse for his brothers

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Photo - Michael with his brothers

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David's wife, Terry emailed some precious old Tilbury family photos (many used here). Terry and Ian have talked at length about family resemblances. Ian feels his Auntie Jean bears a striking resemblance to Queenie and in some pictures so does his sister, Nicole.

Photo - Auntie Jean on the left, Nanny (Eadie) & Auntie Jean's daughter, Hayley
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Terry feels Ian's Dad Terry

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and Ian himself
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also resemble the Elliott side of the family.

So far, Ian has not had an opportunity to talk to his Uncle Michael. David says "Mick" has so far declined to discuss the distant past but will probably come around eventually. He also says this is an example of how Mick's personality differs from his Tilbury half-brothers.

Ian hasn't had an opportunity to discuss any of this with his father, Terry, either. I am anxious to see an older/more recent picture of Mick. I'm wondering just how alike these brothers may be.

So in searching for a lost infant uncle, Ian found his Uncle Michael alive and well in England and unexpectedly, 4 half uncles and their families.

And they live spitting distance from where my Great Grandfather's story lead me.

Friday, October 13

Special Days in October:
Ashley Nicole Buchanan - sweet 16th birthday 21 October
Scott Faflak - 21st birthday 11th October
Happy Thanksgiving and Happy Hallowe'en!!

Thursday, September 21

Gabriella "Ella" Jean Myers
was born at 22:58hrs on 13 September 2006 at Chatham Public General Hospital to proud parents, Martha (nee Richardson) and Jeff Myers.
Grandma Pauline, who witnessed her birth says Ella weighed 6lbs 12oz and everyone is healthy and happy.
(Grandparents; Ed and Pauline Richardson, Great Grandmother; Jean Richardson.)
Congratulations Martha and Jeff!
Welcome Ella!!

Thursday, September 14

Special Days in September:
(If I've missed anyone, please let me know)
Birthdays:
  1. Sept 4 – Maxine Hall’s 76th
  2. Sept 4 – Brent McLachlin’s 33rd
  3. Sept 11 - Allison MacKenzie Faflak brandnew
  4. Sept 18 – Stephen Fisher’s 43rd
  5. Sept 20 – Andrew Hall’s 10th
  6. Sept 20 – Alan Hall’s 58th
  7. Sept 22 – Sharon Hall’s 52nd
  8. Sept 26 – Lesley Sercombe’s 38th

Anniversaries:

  1. Sept 10 – Brittan, Rhonda & Shawn 12th
  2. Sept 14 – Hall, Brian & Pam 15th

Many happy returns of the day to all of you.

(My Great Auntie Jean Richardson)
Richardson Family Reunion 2006 - a few pics.

We unfortunately didn't take as many pics this year as in previous years. We were playing pseudo cricket with the kids and lost track of time. If any of you have some you'd like to share we'd be happy to post them.

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(Pat Stevenson, Anney Hall & Pam Hall)
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(Donna McLachlin, Pauline Richardson & Jean Richardson in the background with Brent and his wife and new baby)
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(me with Ed Richardson)
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(Marjorie Zavitz, me and Sherry Zavitz)
We've still got video to download off the camera. Will post it asap.


A new member of the family:

Allison MacKenzie Faflak arrived safely 11 September 2006 at Chatham Public General Hospital. Mom Brittany, Dad Justin and baby Ally are now at home and doing well.

My new title is "Nana"!

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